The most important lesson about people and problems is the obligation to do something helpful; never attack and never become entangled yourself.
If someone in fact has a well-earned reputation for broadcasting problems, be supportive, ward off any attackers—because wicked people like to beat on the oppressed—and encourage them with the insight bystanders naturally troubleshoot our problems when we divulge our problems publicly.
If you have a real problem, ask for help. Some will be quick to provide the minimum you need, being their brothers’ keepers while preserving your dignity by carrying the equivalent of your own weight. · · · →
The big picture often trumps all.
Look at your annual budget when deciding your monthly budget. Filing for a tax extension because you procrastinated actually takes more time because of the additional filing. That’s about five minutes you took from your year that you could have spent better reading the Bible or watching baseball.
When people stonewall, it’s really annoying and frustrating and… You know what, it’s not that big of a wall. Only petty people stonewall because only petty people care. The same goes for insults and gossip and anything.
The big picture prioritizes money, time, strategy, and friendship. · · · →