Visit People

Visit People

Take time out of your business to travel, sit, and talk face to face with people. Cancel important things. Cut your business profits. Ax. Hack. Chop off something you are doing that needs to be done. Make the sacrifice that won’t kill you so that other people can encounter you in the flesh.

Sometimes it is rejuvenating and your own work list actually gets more items checked-off after a personal encounter. You need that encounter as much as other people do.

Some face-to-face time helps relationships because it’s the right thing to do, costing everyone less time in the end.  · · · →

Pride or Principle

Pride or Principle

Most matters gridlocked by personal pride are cloaked as matters of “principle”. They’re not.

It seems like a matter of principle when you’re mad as an angry bull and can only see the color red. “I can’t let him get away with doing that to me,” the attitude goes. “It’s about the principle!”

Principles are important. Without them society breaks down entirely. So, look at the deeper principles truly at stake—much ado about little, mountains grown from ant hills, grown adults squabbling over matters so silly, children can’t notice the difference. Being petty is also a matter of principle.  · · · →

Call Crazy Crazy

Call Crazy Crazy

Don’t be numb to crazy. People who drive people crazy are probably crazy people. Review the personality disorders and a handful of the top complexes.

“Mental health” means living a productive life, maintaining happy friendships, ability to adapt, and being able to deal with adversity—not melting down or throwing a tantrum because of an opponent. One of the sure signs that someone needs professional intervention is an inability to take responsibility and be a Good Samaritan when circumstance obviously dictates.

Anyone can learn about mental health. When you see crazy, don’t fret and snowball your angry, recommend professional help.  · · · →

Why It’s All Predictable

Why It’s All Predictable

Almost everything is predictable and for good reason. Some things don’t change. If you understand those things, fewer things will catch you off guard. Those things that don’t change are timeless principles.

Usually, it is an indication of antisocial tendency when someone can’t anticipate what consequences will follow certain choices and actions. If someone can’t tell where their choices will lead, they may not understand timeless principles either. In this sense, everyone suffers from antisocial tendencies on some level.

Learn wisdom, moral principles, timeless truths, and others’ pasts. The more you understand history, the less the future will surprise you.  · · · →